You say that I don't listen That I don't give you no respect You took your love to some other place Now, what did you expect? We made vows inside the church To forgive each other's sins But there are things I have to endure Like the smell of another man's skin If that's not loving you, I don't know what is (I don't know what) If that's not loving you, then tell me what it is If that's not loving you, I don't know what is (I don't know what) If that's not loving you, then tell me what it is You say you wanted children And you would grow into a mother But in my mind's eye, I would see you In the arms of another I am given to jealousy I've been given to violence But I could never raise a hand in my defence So I suffer here in silence If that's not loving you, I don't know what is (I don't know what) If that's not loving you, then tell me what it is If that's not loving you, I don't know what is (I don't know what) If that's not loving you, then tell me what it is I pray the waters of forgiveness Will rain down on you and me Just like newborn babies In the cradle of a tree And we will walk in righteousness We will walk in rain and thunder And what God has joined together here Let no man put asunder If that's not loving you, I don't know what is (I don't know what) If that's not loving you, then tell me what it is If that's not loving you, I don't know what is (I don't know what) If that's not loving you, then tell me what it is If that's not loving you, I don't know what is (I don't know what) If that's not loving you, then tell me what it is If that's not loving you, I don't know what is (I don't know what) If that's not loving you, then tell me what it is