Kawann Shockley - Stupid Minded lyrics

Verse 1: Thinking back to 198 when I was the one tryin' to date Tryin' to find a mate who'd embrace me and my unusual traits As a child I went through some things that when I grew up would be shown As a man I would kinda dread anytime I was left alone I remember being in the church and this girl reaching in her purse Saying it's my card and give me a call when at home even if at work I was kinda shocked she was bold, I saw it as co*ky but dope But since I'm the O here's my card, nah you call me when I get home And she did, in a matter of days I was at her crib Come to find out she had a kid and a kid and a kid And had been married for some years and in tears told me how affairs Was her husband wouldn't be there so her kids they would see what a family is I thought I could help in the plight, she suggested I spend the night An invite I had to refuse, that's when I made a move, got my bike And was out but the truth is I was really trapped Though I acted like I was strong I didn't move on later I went back Guess I was Chorus (Mr. Throwdown): I'm so stupid, stupid minded Well I'm stupid sometimes, stupid minded Cause I'm stupid, stupid minded Oh oh sometimes stupid minded Verse 2: I dedicate this verse to a friend who's been having problems with men Always being used and abused, yes she would give up everything for them Always looking for Mr. Right, always seem to find Mr. Wrong All along trusting in them, sis this is where I think you went wrong All the guys that you have met whether church or the internet Wasn't him ‘cause in a sense Mr. Right won't be found in a quest First you gotta look to yourself and that means you no one else So don't be intrigued or distracted by these guys, they'll never help Charity starts at home, get some clarity for that dome Apparently you're at home in a mess seeking love in a chatroom If I could I'd hold your hand but you're a big girl so I can't You must understand you need more than s** if you wanna try and keep a man Rather than giving yourself, try forgiving yourself, live in yourself For a while and you find you possess much hidden wealth If it fails it was you so regretful is what you won't be Respectful is what you gon' be on me so lady don't be Chorus (Mr. Throwdown): I'm so stupid, stupid minded Well I'm stupid sometimes, stupid minded Cause I'm stupid, stupid minded Oh oh sometimes stupid minded O'hene: I dedicate this to the many of us who have made some stupid mistakes in our lives. I know I have. So this is a little medley I put together for you and you and you. Oh, and I forgot me, ‘cause I was, ‘cause I was, yes I was