J. Cole - The J. Cole Virginity Story lyrics

Hey guys, this is my first post, and I just made my account not too long ago. I wanted to point something out that I think not alot of people have noticed Before I start, I want to get it clear that I'm not hating or anything along those lines, J. Cole is one of my favorite artists, which is why I seems to notice this. I listened to his Friday Night Lights mixtape, was great. "Too Deep For The Intro" was a great song and had a good nostalgic vibe to it. He said in the song, "Should I admit that a s*utty b**h was my first smash." It didn't seem to strike me until I remembered in his song "Wet Dreamz", the plot twist was that the girl he was trying to lose his virginity to was also a virgin. Can someone explain this to me because I feel like I am missing something