India.arie - The Heart Of The Matter lyrics

I got the call today I didn't wanna hear But I knew that it would come An old, true friend of ours was talkin' on the phone She said you'd found someone And I thought of all the bad luck and all the struggles we went through How I lost me, and you lost you What are all these voices outside love's open door Make us throw off our contentment and beg for something more? I've been learning to live without you now But I miss you sometimes The more I know, the less I understand All the things I thought I knew, I'm learning them again I've been tryin' to get down to the heart of the matter But my will gets weak, and my thoughts seem to scatter But I think it's about forgiveness, forgiveness Even if, even if you don't love me anymore These times are so uncertain There's a yearning undefined and people filled with rage We all need a little tenderness How can love survive in such a graceless age? And the trust and self-a**urance that lead to happiness Are the very things we k**, I guess Pride and competition cannot fill these empty arms And the world they put between us - you know it doesn't keep us warm I've been trying to live without you now But I miss you, baby The more I know, the less I understand And all the things I thought I'd figured out, I have to learn again I'm tryin' to get down to the heart of the matter But my will gets weak, and my heart is so shattered But I think it's about forgiveness, forgiveness Even if, even if you don't love me anymore Oh, there are people in your life who've come and gone They let you down; you know they hurt your pride You got to put it all behind you 'cause life goes on You keep carryin' that anger, it'll eat you up inside I will live happily ever after and my heart is so shattered But I know it's about forgiveness, forgiveness Even if, even if you don't love me I've been tryin' to get down to the heart of the matter Because the flesh gets weak and the ashes will scatter So I'm thinkin' about forgiveness, forgiveness Even if you don't love me anymore Even if you don't love me anymore