( mary j. blige cover / live peel session 2000 ) The problem is For many years I lived my life Publicly It's hard to find a man i trust I really trust And everytime i find someone i like I gotta worry about If it's me That they see 'cause they're looking for a ride that's free So i made the choice to be Good to those who were good to me Don't judge me Don't think me bitter For the evil god's allowed me to see I'm just mary, just mary, just mary All day, all night, i'm mary Mary, mary, m.j.b. yeah Can't be clothes or the car i drive They don't make the woman M.j.b. yeah...