As with any child, you find your own more beautiful - eager to nurse along, watch over it, and taking special pride as each day it grows more gorgeously like you. Why not consider it a sort of accomplishment? Failure doesn't happen by itself. It takes time, effort, and a certain undeniable gift.
Satisfaction comes from recognizing what you do best, Most of what happens is never intended, but deep inside you know you planned this - not a slip or a fumble but a total rout. You only fail at what you really aim for.