Can you find it in yourself? Or do you rely on someone else? Is it really real to you? Or just what the others do? You say you're on your own Self-reliant, in control Independent with a goal Do you really know? You ask me what it is It's what's in me and you Self-control and attitude It's how you feel about you You say you're on your own Self-reliant, in control Independent with a goal Do you really know?