10. Manage your money before it starts to manage you.-
We live in one of the greatest recessions known to mankind, there are not
many jobs out there and the entire world is about to simultaneously file
for bankruptcy. Spend your money wisely and don't spend above your means.
The last thing you want to do is be living pay check to pay with so much
uncertainty as to whether or not you will survive on your own.
9. Let the wrong people go.-
You are going to come across many different types of people in life,
so you don't have to be everyone's friend. You will come to realize who
your true friends are, supporting you through thick and thin. You will
also, however, encounter a fair amount of poisonous individuals that
will try to hold you back from getting what you want for their own benefit.
Cut them off and don't let them intrude and ruin your life. You can't make
everyone happy in this world, so don't bother trying. Don't be so quick to
lend out your trust.
8. Appreciate your true friends, and return the favor.-
You true friends are the ones that you can call during any time of the day
and will be there to help you no matter what. Return the favor of being a
good friend and don't ever forget where you came from. Friendship is what
will keep you humble throughout your journey, and as long as you continue
to show appreciation for the love you are given, it will only come back in
larger doses.
7. Understand right from wrong-
This isn't college anymore, it is time to grow up and take responsibility for
your actions. There is a right time and place for everything and by now you
should know what will help you in the long run and what is simply a waste of
time. It's okay to have fun, but not during a time when you know you could be
working harder to accomplish your goals.
6. Choose happiness. –
Happiness is a choice that varies in substance for many people, so you need
to create your own kind of happiness that you find most fulfilling or stimulating.
There is nothing you need in order to be happy other than the choice to do so.
Let go of the worries you have for what may or may not come your way. Focus
instead on the good things that you can give, create, inspire and choose to
experience, right here, right now
5. Learn to cope with anger effectively.-
Your 20s are an emotional rollercoaster of confusion and enlightenment. You will
feel a significant amount of emotional stress and you need to understand how to
control it so it only helps you dominate your 20′s with efficiency and pride.
When you begin to let your emotions start controlling you and your decisions is
when you are destined to fall off a cliff. Unless they force you to work harder
or more pa**ionately, ignore the bad emotions and let the good one's carry you
to new intellectual heights.
4. Make your own destiny –
If you want to be successful then you need to create the life that is most
deserving of such pleasures and reward. Don't just sit there and talk the talk.
You need to learn how to walk the walk and stick by your word. You have the
power to make your own destiny and that starts with the decisions you make and
the actions you take to become worthy of success.
3. Create priorities.-
Priorities will help you understand what is important in creating the life you
wish to have and what is only stopping you from being the best version of
yourself imaginable. Life is going to offer many distractions that will attempt
to throw you off course from your goal.
It is ultimately up to you to stay disciplined at all times and understand how
to spend your time and energy in accordance to your own well being. Don't waste
your time on social media or being a club rat. These things won't make you a
more intelligent person with a better grasp on how to handle life's important choices.
2. Stay away from a routine based life.-
Don't turn into a pedestrian by settling for the first thing that life gives you.
Security and stability may seem less harmful at first but they prevent you from
experiencing the greatest adventures and rewards this world could possibly offer.
You will be presented with a lifestyle that appears comfortable, doing the same
things each day with little or no excitement or mental growth involved.
This is why you need to remember that to take advantage of the wondrous opportunities
life has in store for you, you must get comfortable with the uncomfortable and choose
the road that is most interesting, regardless of how complicated or unnerving it may be.
1. Always keep in mind that life is somewhat unpredictable.-
Some of the great moments in your life won't necessarily be the things you do; they'll
be things that happen to you. That doesn't mean you can't take action to affect
the outcome.. You have to take action, and you will. But don't forget that on any
day, you can step out the front door and your whole life can change in an instant – for better or worse.
To an extent, the universe has a plan that's always in motion. A bu*terfly flaps
its wings and it starts to rain – it's a scary thought, but it's part of life's cycle.
All these little parts of the machine, constantly working – sometimes forcing you
to struggle, and sometimes making sure you end up exactly in the right place at the right time
source: http://elitedaily.com/life/culture/20-good-habits-start-20s/